Man's orgasm
The love play with yourself or with a partner or an AnandaWave® Lingam massage is the starting point for sensuous stimuli, erotic imaginations and/or tender touches, sensual fragrances and many other impressions. They enter your emotions and arouse your sexual interest and activity. Your brain starts releasing certain hormones while your parasympathetic nerves will get activated within a second. Arterial "inlet valves" open, blood streams into the Lingam and it starts swelling.Pulse and blood pressure rise, your breathing quickens, your nipples erect and your testicles swell and lift towards the pelvis. The endorphin hormone is released by your brain and makes you feel "intoxicated by happiness".
The erectile tissue in the penis will fill with blood, your penis will rise "royally" and erect to its full size. The glans swells and takes on a purple-red colour, the testicles pull up even higher into the pelvis. Maybe the first droplet of pre-ejaculate arises now, originating in the Cowper's glands and preparing the ejaculation - it might possibly already contain some hasty fertile sperms. Your pulse and blood pressure keep rising, your breathing gets even faster, deeper and full of lust, possibly also louder. Linear thinking makes way for a more all-encompassing and sensitive way of perception. You might start to groan and all muscles in your pelvis tense up until an increasing loss of control occurs. The acute desire for release becomes stronger and stronger, the whole body gets ready for an orgasm.
This is the moment of a great decision: Do you choose the "quick relief" with an early ejaculation or do you prefer the "rippling up and down of a blissful wave" which compares to the stroke of wing of an eagle and deepens the feeling of lust by staving off the ejaculation again and again.
Would you like to keep on riding on the wave of sexual arousal?
Following a delightful phase of preparation the sexual arousal initiated by our Lingam massage will build up very quickly, like a wave. Subsequently the energy and power arising will be spread out in the body by certain massage techniques. This leads to a descent of arousal, the “wave” gently becomes smaller, but only to build up again vigorously. This procedure leads to a delightful sexual “surf ride” which can be celebrated extensively for a long time – an experience of deep satisfaction.
The length of your so-called plateau phase depends on how familiar you are with your sexual arousal as well as how long you would like to delay your ejaculation. Up to a certain point you can extend the duration of the plateau phase which gets even more intense the longer you manage to extend it deliberately. Furthermore our AnandaWave®-Team is very skilled in supporting you in "riding your wave" with the relevant easiness, humour and true affinity.
The phase of orgasm
If you exceed a certain level of arousal – the so-called „point of no return“– your sympathetic nervous system regains its mastery and your phase of orgasm automatically commences.
Once started, it cannot be stopped any more.
Every rational action now ceases. With indulgence you leave your conscious self behind and for a short instant you lose any sense of time and your. A moment of brightness which in many times might initiate a modified consciousness arises. Maybe your mind briefly snatches an idea of the divine.
In French this complete release is called „la petite mort”, the “small death”, since in the orgasm as well as in death you give up control and completely and confidently give yourself over to the “here and now”.
It is of great importance to us that you can dedicate yourself to the AnandaWave® - Lingam massage and feel safe enough to give up control. You do not have to fulfil any expectations. Achieving an orgasm is always welcome to us but is not at the centre of our work. You might as well decide on a meditative and gently fading end or on a “big bang”.
Whatever you choose, you will be in safe hands with us.
