Multiple orgasms – possible for men?
To many men the orgasm means the end of sexual intercourse. But now we know that multiple orgasms cannot only be enjoyed by women. Inventive and sensible men also might experience multiple orgasms during a sexual encounter or in an AnandaWave® - Lingam massage. “Man-kind” does not necessarily have to ejaculate to experience a satisfying orgasm.
Many people are mistaken thinking that an ejaculation and an orgasm are the same thing. Though often happening, it is not necessarily the case. An ejaculation simply is a physical reaction during which the sperm is ejected from the body. An orgasm, however, is an intense emotional experience of pure energy. Orgasm and ejaculation neurophysiologically are two completely different processes. They are mentally associated by men, but can be untangled again.
The only thing we need to achieve this is consciousness of our orgasm, which can be learned. The orgasm is a language we can adapt, providing we concentrate on listening to its messages.
Surf the wave of arousal
During a Lingam massage or masturbation always be aware of everything happening in your body. Trace every single quality of any touch, breathe deeply and with awareness down into the pelvic floor. Be constantly aware of your state of arousal. Are you at 40%, 80%, 90% or 99%? Realize exactly when you are getting to your “point of no return” which occurs inevitably at 100%. Get acquainted with this certain point like you would with your lover and try to surf closer to this point by and by. You will need some practice with that. The AnandaWave® crew asks men not give up hope at this sometimes difficult point when perceiving a Lingam massage. Enjoy your journey there without losing sight of your aims. It is worth it!
Male orgasm really takes place fractions of seconds before the ejaculation itself. This is the time which you can use to stop the ejaculation - in case you know your body and its waves of arousal very well and feel the "point of no return" early enough to interfere. This can be achieved in several ways, e.g. by concentration of your thoughts, the immediate stopping of any movement, controlling of the pelvis muscle, softly biting your teeth together, rolling up your eyes, softly pulling down your testicles, strongly pressing the glans between two fingers, pressing the "million dollar spot" (between anus and the root of your Lingam), and many other ways. Feel free to practice to find out the ideal strategy for yourself and what helps you best. Use this technique over and over again consciously for this purpose.
As everybody knows the sex act usually ends with the orgasm. Learning the technique of delaying the ejaculation a man might indulge in "eternal" sex without experiencing any disadvantages, since the erection is not lost by avoiding the ejaculation. By holding up the ejaculation the man can experience many smaller or bigger orgasms during the sexual act or a Lingam massage.
Experiencing a whole-body orgasm
However, merely holding back the ejaculation does not lead to a whole-body orgasm. To achieve that we also have to deepen our breathing and have our sexual energy circulate with it in our whole body.
On an "orgasmic scale" an orgasm without ejaculation reaches 98 to 99 percent, but it may be repeated as often as a man likes. By holding back the ejaculation while being sexually aroused, sexual energy rises progressively. "Surfing" close to the "point of no return" from time to time our orgiastic energy starts spreading more and more, over the entire body. Power builds up within us, flooding the body. Somewhere along the line we feel the transformation into a higher state of energy - the way to the intense whole-body orgasms is free.
A whole-body orgasm occurs when sexual and respiratory energies are build up in such a strong way that the circulation of erotic and sexual feelings is activated within the whole body.
Such a special orgasm is much deeper and lasts much longer than the usual one. Usually the orgasm only lasts for half a second though touching a 100 % on the orgasmic scale.
With the experience of a whole-body orgasm, you will feel floode with warmth and will experiece pleasant physical shudders. Feelings are not only located in the genital area but circulate our whole being. Afterwards, "mankind" does not feel weak and exhausted but full of energy and spirit.
Orgasm appreciation during the AnandaWave® Lingam massage
During the AnandaWave® - Lingam massage subtle nuances within the possibilities of stimulation can be tested, widening your personal potential of sexual experience. During the Lingam massage, the man learns to improve his consciousness of his orgasm and his ejaculation, deliberately directing or accompanying both. Consequently, the sexual pleasure very often is increased and leads to a more intense climax. In addition, the masseur or masseuse might influence the male orgasm by his or her way of touching, especially by spreading the energy all over the body again and again. During the stimulation, tension and relaxation will balance each other.
